Happy Christmas

First, Happy Christmas!

This is such a great time of the year. People smile more at the store, we are all a little happier, friendlier and tolerant of each other. For that, I am thankful.

There are exceptions to that Christmas cheer. I told someone last night people often forget the tru meaning of Christmas. You know what it is, I don’t need to tell you. It’s a season of giving, happiness, joy and lastly, receiving. It’s not a season of hate, anger, frustration or vindictiveness.

Here’s the challenge this Christmas. Forget what you don’t have and cherish what you do. Throw away the feelings of the past and embrace what’s here in the present. Every day can’t be Christmas. It comes once a year. That’s what makes it so special.

I hate that there’s such a rush to get people things. Some of the best things aren’t bought with money but given with love. My mother is giving me a quilt my great-grandmother made. Is there any price for that? It’s a selfless act my mother is doing for me. Remember the day isn’t made up of expensive clothes, jewelry, toys, gadgets and electronics. It’s all about family, friends and loved ones otherwise not mentioned in the first two descriptions.

Celebrate the holiday in your way. Forget what it’s become, for me, some of the best memories of past Christmases are what bring happiness to each year. It’s listening to Christmas songs that made your holidays. For me, it’s Phil Spector’s Christmas, Motown, Carpenters, Gene Autry, Brenda Lee, Bobby Helms and yes, even Band Aid’s “Do They Know It’s Christmas”.

I should, of course, be loading up my car with presents to make the trek down to Wayne County to see my family but I just wanted to say a couple of things before I got these next two days officially started.

Thanks for reading my blog. I’m honored by the fact that anyone reads my blog to get taawd’s thoughts or cares what’s going on in my life. It’s the only one I have and I’m thankful for all of the family, friends and loved ones I have. Each one of you holds your own special place in my life and I’m happy you are part of my being.

Now go and enjoy Christmas. Enjoy the fellowship it brings, enjoy the happiness it delivers, embrace the love and joy that’s unequaled the rest of the year.

Love. Peace. Joy.
& always, Happy Christmas,